Does it considered cheating?

A married guy having dirty talks with a woman and exchanged each other their nude photo and shared their sex experiences with their partners? He met up with another gal who gave him a ******* but he did not do anything to the gal. Does it still considered cheating even there is no sex intercourse involved.


Yes it is still cheating. You don't talk about sexaul things to another person that is not your spouse. And as soon sa they did anything sexual (online or in person) they cheated. There is more to sex then just having intercourse. Oral sex IS sex and its cheating if down with a person not your spouse.

Blue Sky 🐾

That is most definitely cheating and there is no gray area.


Yes that’s cheating and very disrespectful to his partner. Would you allow your own partner do that to you behind your back. I’m pretty sure you don’t like it. If my husband does that to me I would break his phone and fight with him I’d contacted the girl and beat **** out of her


Does having sex with a condom on not count too, because your genitals aren't really touching?


Cheating is defined as having ANY romantic contact with someone other than your mate so yes he is guilty of cheating by receiving oral pleasure.


I think you can answer this question yourself... if your partner / spouse did this and you found out, would you be OK with it or would you consider they had cheated on you?

♠ Merlin ♠

Anything that disrespects the relationship, anything, like this, that you wouldnt do in front of your partner, is cheating. He KNOWS its wrong, sex or not, the marriage is over, the trust has gone


Sounds like a pervert . Wife needs to know






The scum bag has cheated...he gave his intimacy and attention to someone else beside you...why are you even questioning?

John Lauland

I think this is a no brainier. Pornography, sexting, flirting, emotional affairs, inappropriate touching, etc are all forms of cheating. Physical sex including oral aren't the only ways to cheat.


That's cheating. His wife need to divorce his sorry ***.


Anything someone does that could not be done in front of the significant other is cheating, could be eating an ice cream. if that is what you promised to not do,trust is everything.


It will eventually lead to something. Yes

Anonymous User

I’m leaning towards yes, but I’m still not sure.

♥ Abby ♥



Flirt with others Engage in sexual talk with someone else Exchange personal e-mails or text messages Deny being married or in a relationship Spend time with specific individuals Engage in specific types of contact—sleeping in the same bed with another person Purchase intimate gifts and presents for others Chat online with someone else (online affairs) Have sexual contact with someone else (physical infidelity) Become emotionally involved with someone else (emotional infidelity) Develop a crush or feelings for another individual Share their most private thoughts and feelings with someone else Become best friends with someone of the opposite sex And the list could go on and on...


Strictly speaking, cheating involves intercourse with someone other than one's partner, but the action you've described is clearly inappropriate for a married man.


Blowjo*b is definitely cheating, according to like literally everyone The second one- sexual talking and nude pics- is considered cheating by about 70% of people, obviously its still bad but not nearly as bad as the sexual cheating


If my husband did that I'd consider it grounds for divorce, so yeah, in my mind any sexual act is cheating. Oral sex is cheating. Sexy talk is not necessarily cheating but it sure isn't faithfulness.

What You Talkin' About?

If you want to post in the English section, then learn English.


It depends on the two people involved in the relationship. In MY relationship oral sex is cheating.


Yes - I would consider even talking to another woman like that as cheating