Why do certain people sometimes need me and other times they don't?
Sounds like they are users to be honest. Some friends are loyal and some are loyal to their need of you once their needs change the loyalty and "friendship" is gone. That's not a friend let those people go.
Marie And Alan
We all vary. It is part of our humanity. Do not take it personally
If they don’t think my time is worth any value, then I don’t have time for them! If people don’t care about you, you shouldn’t help them. They don’t deserve your help.. Yes, it’s harsh, but it makes my life easier and I am happier for it. People take me more seriously. here are the reasons why I personally stopped helping people and recommend that you should too:It’s not always an easy thing to do. We were taught helping people is the right thing to do. You need to unlearn this popular belief.People will always try to exploit you if you allow them to. You don’t have the time to help everyone, only help people who deserve your help.REMEMBER, THE FIRST PERSON YOU NEED TO HELP IS YOURSELF. IF HELPING PEOPLE MAKES YOU UNHAPPY, DON’T DO IT. SIMPLE. Sometimes you have to be selfish and put yourself before anyone else. Ignore what society is urging you to do.