Is this being judgemental or what is the right word?

When it comes to wanting a girlfriend, I go for both looks and personality. With people in general, I don’t judge physical appearance as that would be shallow minded. Our physical appearance does not define who we really are since it’s psychological. With people, I go by if they are nice or not. True ugliness comes from within if you’re insensitive to emotions and have no empathy and no understanding but you can improve yourself to gain these traits. Some people choose not to educate themselves into being empathetic and understanding.


Your opinion matter whether it means being "Judgmental" or not.


Yes that is judgemental. Better to be honest with yourself with what you like and open to other possibilities as they come around. Being judgemental typically stresses what one does not like instead of what they do like.