Why does a old friend that I used to date and is now married keep messaging me every single day and night?

This guy that I briefly dated years ago has started coming into my life via messamger on Facebook and he keeps messaging me day and night.. like all day. He is very flirtatious and is starting to say sexual flirty things to me. He tells me “I miss you” and “your my favorite girl”. I asked him if he was happily married and he said that he would explain it to me when we go out and have a drink and wouldn’t say it via message to me. He knows that I’m in a unhappy marriage and he will say that I should stay and try to make it work for the kids. I really like him.. we have a strong chemistry and when we talk we can’t stop laughing and are very alike. He will bring up things from our past when we dated and he remembers every single detail about it. I don’t know how much more I can take of it because I feel like he is just playing with me and will never leave his wife. So my question is why is he messaging me all day and night. Everyday and saying these things to me?

Answers

David

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Foofa

Clearly looking to have an affair. How to react to this is up to you.

D C

block him, hes no good for his wife or you

Anonymous

He is wanting to cheat on his wife. If you were smart, you would block him. This is not going to end well, at all.

Rowan

I guess go have a drink with him and find out. I mean, I don't like to encourage cheating but it sort of sounds as though neither of you is real happy.

Marie And Alan

Tell him that you will forward future messages to his wife. Do not meet up: you could be part of a divorce.

Anonymous

I think it would be a bit premature to say that he likes you. He obviously enjoys your company and finds you attractive but this could be because he is frustrated in his current relationship. One thing we can conclude though is that this guy does not want to be with his wife. No man would say the things he does to you if he is happily married. In saying that, what I think you need to do is to let this guy know that eventually he will need to make a decision because he cannot keep spending as much time with you and make the comments that he does while being in a relationship - it is not fair for all parties concerned to go on living this way.

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