Why is my ex so cruel and mean after the break up? It’s as if he enjoys it :(?

J

very possibly that your ex is angry and lashing out just out of frustration

Lester

he does enjoy it.

LAN

Maybe it's payback for all the enjoyment he didn't get in the marriage.

Steve

Bitter critter. If he enjoys it he’s a psychopath. If he doesn’t he’s still in pain.

Patrick4024

He is angry and lashing out. It will go away in time, but if it gets too bad, you might need to get a restraining order against him.