Am I overreacting?
Why would you expect to be invited to your friend's cousin's wedding?
I'm not sure why this even came up. Your best friend's cousin got married. Why would you even expect an invitation? Are you also friends with her cousin? If the cousin didn't invite you; you weren't invited. Your friend cannot invite you to someone else's wedding. You can feel whatever you want - but you're making a bigger issue out of this than it needs to be.
You and your friend have zero manners. The bride and groom set the guest list for the wedding. Your friend didn't have the right to invite you, and you were rude to invite yourself. To be upset about it months later (considering how pushy you were) is just bizarre.
Super weird, yes. I'm guessing your friend was embarrassed and didn't know what to do, felt pushed into a corner by your insistence on going. Why would you bring it up to her at all, much less a week before the wedding? Did you even know her cousin?? Believe me if you were actually invited you'd have known long before then. Yes, you're overreacting, starting with pushing yourself into that wedding. And Lord have mercy, that was months ago. Let it rest and move on.
♠ Merlin ♠
Your question is pretty jumbled Do we assume she was a guest at the wedding and didnt invite you as her plus one? She didnt want you at the wedding, that much is clear she should have just been honest, and said she was going alone. why you are still facilitating her when she treats you so badly is beyond me
Yes you are. You were foolish to continue discussing the wedding with her when you really were never invited. I would just let it go, never mention it again, and maybe just distance yourself from her and move on.
Yes. Why on earth did you think you'd be part of this at all and why did you try to insert yourself as someone who should remotely be texting the bride or seeing her except at the wedding. You were beyond rude and immature. The bride never owed you the time of day.
Wow! First off your best friends COUSIN got married, not your best friend.. and you expected to be invited why? Then you embarrass your friend into inviting you... even though it isn't up to her to invite guests... they probably got mad at her for inviting you since she had no rights to do so.. So she was trying to get you to not go but didn't want to tell you... You need to learn some manners.
Without knowing your relationship to this bride it's hard to say.
OMG! I don't have time to read your long, long, long post!