Why does no one like me??

I’m a nice person with a quiet, intelligent, thoughtful personality. Why does no one see this about me? Instead I get told I’m weird or too nice. Why I stuck up for myself, I’m told I’m rude and I get laughed at and teased. I also refuse to follow the crowd. I pursue my own interests and I don’t care what people think about me. Why am I hated so much?
Answers

M'aiq The liar

Well we don't have enough information about you. Maybe you don't know how to have a conversation that's interesting to both parties. Maybe your jokes could use some work. Maybe you dress strangely. Maybe you hold some reprehensible beliefs. Maybe you just smell bad. Who knows? You could be outwardly nice, smart and/or quiet and still suffer from any or all of the above. But that's okay. People have these problems, especially young people. You just need to work on yourself. Charm, hygiene, humor... these are all skills and people who are good at these are universally popular, even if what you do with your spare time is weird or if you hold unpopular beliefs. You can work on your ability to get others to like you, it's a skill. It's clear that you DO care somewhat about what other people think of you, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question. And that's perfectly okay, too. It's good to take some pride in what people think about you. It's what gets you that good job or that sweet apartment. It's an important part of a human being's life. There's no shame in that. It also nets you life-long friends and eventually a monogamous partner.

Kelley

Leave to a loving group of people.

poldi2

If you don't care what other people think, why do you care if they hate you.

ravenhill the blacksmith 1043A.D

ignore it and do your own thing.

Anonymous

I went to a high school that had 2,000 students. There were only six of us that were so straight, none of the others would get near us, in fear we might report them when they disobeyed the rules or broke laws.

Queenstar

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Anonymous

You contradicted yourself. You said you don't care what people think of you, yet you're here asking why people don't like you and hate you. From reading your question you sound cocky and arrogant. Even if you believe you're right in everything, don't show it in an arrogant manner, otherwise people will see you as stuck up.

Anonymous

Because you need to wait for the right person to come along